you may cry, but don't let it stops your move

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tears. I'm fully sure that everyone has ever dropped their tears. babies, kids, teenagers, adults, parents, grandmother, grandfather, girls, and boys.
tears. it is dropped because of sadness, feeling guilty, or even because of happiness.

well, currently I always drop my tears for along this 4 days. day by day, I cry, I'm crying about problems and obstacles that I have to face and fix.

sometimes, I think that God is not fair with me that why should I face this in my earlier age? I'm still 17 by the way..

well, I have many big dreams, I have a wish that I can achieve all those my dreams. And when someday you feel that God slowly but sure shows your dream alive, you will feel very happy and you can feel your body with your full spirit, right? and so do I.

but, how if someday in the middle of your journey of achieving your dreams, you find so many obstacles? you find so many difficulties that you can't fix it alone and you have no strength to face it?

maybe this is the most possible things that you will do. first you reflect to your self how could that obstacles occurred, then you try to face them all strongly, and next you fix all the obstacles so they can't block your way to achieve your dreams. but, if someday you find that obstacles seem so difficult, you probably got stressed, you feel down, and nothing you can do when you were under pressure. then, you might be feel so jerk that you can't fix all the obstacles and failed to reach your dreams.

hmm, that's a common things that people usually do when they're getting down, and so do I. there are many ways to lighten those kind of stress, such as pray to God, share problems with friends, and..... cry.

crying is not an attitude full of sin. crying is a common way, even a leader is also crying. you may cry, when you are getting stressed, down, and under pressure. you may relief those kind of obstacles that bother your mind and your body by crying. if you cry, it means you still have a heart, mind, and a reflection how to be better :)

but, don't just stuck by crying! after you cry, you have to wake up! you have to find why God gave you obstacles in achieving your dreams. you have to find how to fix them all so you can erase those obstacles and move forward to achieve your dreams that getting closer to you :)

and after you crying and reflecting to your self, trust me, God will answer your questions "why should I face those obstacles?" you will realize that even those obstacles didn't come from anyone, but you make your own obstacles. so you will be mature how to do things well, face and fix obstacles wisely.

God gives you obstacles to make you strong, wise, and mature.
You may cry, but don't let it stops your move. keep trying and struggling! YOUR DREAMS ARE IN FRONT OF YOU NOW!! they are getting closer!!

Thanks God, for giving me trial, challenge, and obstacles :)

that's the point I learned after crying :')

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